Originally Posted by Tonberry
I think having one mono partner would probably be my limit, I would want the others to be poly, because a mono/poly relationship is harder, and I don't think I'd be able to deal with several at once. While dealing with one would be easier if my other partners are poly too and will understand and support me.
Is that making some sense to you?
This statement totally makes sense to me and I fully agree. I can't imagine poor Redpepper putting up with two of me LOL! Plus, I think that mono partners may require more time to maintain a connection...if there is a break in that connection for a mono person, that is where the potential to form a new and therefore replacing connection can occur. It all depends what the person wants I guess though.