I hear you on that front. Which is why its hard for me to even associate what were looking for with the traditional frowned upon lifestyle. Its not about religion, its not about getting hooked up with young woman, its not even about the sex.
Its hard to say, but since I know you guys know what its like to want to share yourselves with more than one person, you understand that part. To answer why my wife wants to share me with another woman, but does not want that herself, I do not know.
I just know that it was a new idea to myself, and I find solace talking to others that can at least understand where these feelings are coming from.
Thanks for the luck! I'm sure we'll need it.