Oh Sage I can relate to what you say in this thread. It reminds me of PN and roly and the end of their relationship. It was hard for me to sit back and just watch his heart break. There is really nothing to do but make sure he is dealing with it and not putting blinders on to the fact that it is ending.
It was hard to deal with my changed emotions around her also and I couldn't help but feel that it was my fault. If I were a better metamour, if we were better people or a better match then she wouldn't feel like it's done. I took a lot on for sure... really it was just meant to be.
I talk of this in the beginning of my blog I think...
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