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Old 10-06-2010, 09:07 AM
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Yes Ari but it isn't my relationship that is breaking down slowly (I think anyway) it is Z's. The question is how much should a partner get involved when they feel that they are being impacted by the lack of resolution between their partner and another. I think GS is right, I can really only remind him that he needs to deal (not how) and that I don't want to be impacted by it too much. He is being very good about it in general but I can see how hard he is having to work to keep his sadness at bay as much as he does (and that breaks my heart). It is also impacting on how I feel about his other. We were on good terms but I am getting annoyed by her treatment of him.
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