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Old 10-06-2010, 01:44 AM
Tonberry Tonberry is offline
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Originally Posted by Morningglory629 View Post
You are right...I know you are right. I just can't "feel" that you are right. I need to learn to detatch sex from love.
Why? There is no reason why you should become a swinger. The only thing you need to do is accept and recognise the fact that some people are able to detach the two. That doesn't mean you have to. Understanding that other people work in a different way from the way you work is often the one thing that will help the most.
Accepting that they can do it doesn't mean you have to feel they're right and you're wrong, either. Just that people are different and what works for some doesn't work for others.
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