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Old 10-06-2010, 12:22 AM
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I would suggest the age difference also. Is there any history there for her? Another person dumping her for a younger woman or something? Does she have a reason to not trust you?

Other than that I think she and you could use a sit down to establish some boundaries of what would work for you both. It will take awhile to come up with what your needs are and hers and how to work around them and with them, but take your time. These talks are relationship changing and very helpful, bonding and connecting... think of needs such as the need to feel loved and how to achieve that through words, actions and doing what you say... or the need to be special and close... also in terms of words, actions and what you say you will do.
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