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Old 10-05-2010, 09:19 PM
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Liz read some of the text and told me I can no longer talk to this woman.

Also after I was no longer allowed to speak to Beth I did anyway and was caught twice. It was my stupid man child voice saying nobodies gonna tell me who I can and can't be friends with!!!
There's a basic problem with this. I can understand your partner holding out on the idea of poly, but telling you who you can and can't speak to is definitely a red flag regardless of poly or not. In a mono relationship this would not be an indication of a healthy relationship dynamic but your desire for poly may be a factor I presume. If a guy saying this to his wife/girlfriend on here the flames would already be burning high.

Is it just this one woman your partner has this issue with?
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