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Old 10-04-2010, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by RazeGeneration View Post
Although it did[n't(?)] follow my usual pattern of:
no sex=connection
sex=no connection
By connection, I suppose you mean (what some folks call) heart connection, or lovingness / tenderness (?).

In my own case, if I'm very attracted to someone, I'm attracted to the whole person. Otherwise, I'm just not that much attracted to begin with. That is, physical attributes alone aren't enough to make me very attracted to a person sexually. Sex, for me, always involves my heart (and his or hers) -- even though I like the physical aspects of sex as much as anyone. So your usual pattern strikes me as a bit sad and lonely, and I'm glad you're challenging yourself to open that up -- or break out.

Originally Posted by RazeGeneration View Post
I see no point in entertaining him because I'm literally leaving the continent in 2 days.
From where to where?, if you don't mind my asking.
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