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Old 10-03-2010, 06:45 AM
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that sounds horrible I'm affraid i have v limitted first person experience with life partner relationships but with my deep friends and family and their s/o my instinct is to interviene as gently as possible. Incidently i think you can and should carry on being supportive to your sweety throughout (and sounds like you are handling it amazingly i hate it when people i care about are hurt). Would he feel you breached his privacy if you spoke to her? what is your relationship with her like? would it be possible for you to ask her whats going on (she may find it easier to honest with you than him?) maybe you could let her know her behaviour at the mo is hurting your sweety and encourage her to be clearer? Good luck with it all

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