Originally Posted by Ariakas
I think they can also be different with different people. I have been thinking on this and may actually blog it. Logic can defeat the predisposed requirements for love language style imo.
As you age, you don't rely on your love style or language quite so much because you can understand the other side better
Yes this too.
I am a good "switch" these days-but in younger years I was NOT.
I am very good at giving the 10 year old what he needs and accepting from him the way he naturally shows it.
Same with the 3 year old.
I do well with GG and Maca as far as showing them in the way they need and recieving it the way they give it (except on my bday this year).
But-those are all different.
I do NOT do well with the 14 year old.
No matter how hard I try-I just don't do well with buying love. I don't care if it's the love language or not-it's not my gift to give that type of love.
(guess I'm not that mature yet-you should fix that Ari.