Originally Posted by maca
There is a certain power in knowing that I can tell her " LR I need your attention for a min".
I ASSUMED that if she was busy doing things with/about GG then I had no right to be a part of it or ask for a moment. I felt that I had to just sit it out "alone" till she had time for me again. Just like I had to do with my mother. Felt like I had to wait of her to have time for me again.
I'll never be like your mother in that aspect, NEVER.
You know just how much I dislike using "never" and "always"; but in this case, I am confident enough to say that there is no way I COULD ever be that way.
The reason is that I am-by nature-an EXTRAORDINARILY affectionate and emotionally attentive creature. I don't do "wait" well myself!
There's no reason why you can't come to me, ever. Even in the "heat of the moment"-if you need me, needs always come before wants. My wants, GG's wants, your wants; the NEEDS will always come first.
I love you M-I don't just say it-I MEAN it.