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Old 09-30-2010, 12:16 AM
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Originally Posted by anotherbo View Post
I realize now I always had a sort of horror about the idea of being really involved with a man; ...
... re-reading ... This stuck out. The word horror. I suspect the horror wouldn't be there if there were not repressed desire for this very same experience. Instead of horror there'd be a soft, dispassionate disinterest. Doncha think?

Were I in your shoes I'd explore that horror as if it were a fuzzy little declawed, toothless kitten in raging massive tiger costume. Welcome that. Let it in. Sit with it and make friends.
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