If I go by the meaning LovingRadiance set forth, ....I`m not sure I`ll be able to answer that, until the last kid leaves the house, and sets off for their own course in the world. lol
If my children ever got chased by 'the villagers with all their pitchforks' due to my poly choices, I would most definetly say it wasn`t worth it.
Question is,..how much fear-mongering is that in reality ? I`m not so sure anymore, that it is as big a threat as I once believed it was.
So,...I guess I still can`t answer this question.