Ari-this is true in terms of "I am therefore accepting that I am is all I could do".
But I meant it more in terms of has agreeing to LIVE A POLYAMOROUS LIFE been worth it.
I am polyamorous by nature-but trying to take THIS relationship to a polyamorous life has been a nightmare. I'm sure starting a relationship from a polyamorous stand would be easier and less traumatic than taking a "monogomous marriage" to the stage of a "cheating marriage" then to a "polyamorous family".
Does that make more sense?
"Love As Thou Wilt"