I find after a year of being on here that when I see a "new" part of an "established" relationship poster enter the picture I am nervous about replying.
Because it so easily turns into a bloodbath.
That said-I would like to welcome you to the forum Cricket.
I was the wife who cheated on her husband (so the position of Karma).
GG was the "other man".
Here we stand now living together, myself, GG and my husband Maca. It's been a rough go some of the time, a beautiful dream some of the time and often it's been a hysterically funny ride. But most of all it's been a true blessing in disguise as we each find ourselves more truly and grown into better versions of ourselves.
I hope that all of you can find the better and then best versions of yourselves as well.
"Love As Thou Wilt"