Wow, great discussion and everyone is bringing to light points for me to consider. It's nice to know both sides of the swinger experience as it creates balance in my perception.
Obviously I won't be going to anything with deep swinger overtones or populations to avoid unnecessary triggers....what would be the point? But everything talked about here will help me understand and interact with those I meet and know already in the very diverse community of people I consider friends.
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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