wow, that surprises me. I thought you were the most together mono I had come across. I'm not saying that you're not together; I can't really convey what I mean properly.
If you notice I had a similar reaction to you initially, (i.e. never again). But on going deeper it felt like by saying that it also meant that if I could wipe my present relationship away as if it had never happened and have a great mono relationship instead, I would. And I wouldn't.
I think we feel pretty similarly about our partners and it's hard to imagine anyone else who could possibly be out there to offer us anything approaching what we have now. But then we never imagined being where we are now and it's the best we've ever had. So how can we categorically close ourselves off to the possibility of it ever happening again?
Does that make any sense?