That's awesome, TL4everu2! I have one asking a lot of questions, too, but I guess I'd rather explain why we're not swingers than have assumptions.
And I like your explanation:
Originally Posted by TL4everu2
We explained that we wanted to write our OWN vows to reflect the people we have become, and our lives today....as opposed to traditional vows which were written by some clergyman over a hubdred years ago, representing some couple that I have never met before.