Originally Posted by gwendolenthefair
This issue might be moot anyway. His wife just told him this weekend that she wants to move out. Poly was a way for him to still have a sexual and romantic life and and still remain married to his high school sweetheart, who has figured out that she's gay and no longer has any sexual or romantic interest in him. I don't think he has ever been comfortable with the concept though, and once she leaves him, I don't think he'll stay poly. He's already practically said as much, he said he would keep his options open if she left him, and of course, there are way more monogamous single women out there than poly ones.
Hmm that's interesting. Because him finding out his marriage was a no-go you might think that would clear the way for you and him. But I guess he really wants to be in a mono relationship more than anything else.