No harm (physical and/or emotional), no foul. Full, informed consent is a must........and everything Quath said, lol.
I guess society craves for a single guiding light, a norm, to hold out before every person as an example. At least it has for 1000's of years, til now. Maybe this generation and this time period will end up being the "Golden Age of Divergence"? We can only hope. Maybe Obama can make it so! lol