Originally Posted by monaural
When I've felt such feelings, it seemed to stem from a knowledge of just how filthy and philandering men can be (due to being one).
Woman-on-woman action involving my partner felt less threatening both because the idea of it was (true to the stereotype) exciting to me, and because I had some vestigial feeling that the act itself was somehow less primal, raw, and fraught with risks.
Out of curiosity...and this is to just make you think. Do you believe lesbian relationships are less sexual or passionate or great in bed than straight ones?
I am impressed you are coming into it like this. I once held similar viewpoints. I don't anymore. It can be relearned