Originally Posted by monaural
So I wonder if others that came into poly through love rather than innate inclination have had this same sort of transformation, and, most importantly, did it last?
I can't say I have had quite the same transformation. Mine is primarily in the area of acceptance for others. Poly has exposed me to many people who are vaslty different than myself. I have also changed in my preception of male female dynamics which has changed my view on mixed gender friendships outside of mono relationships. I haven't changed in some aspects of my monogamous nature (which has become even more developed and solidified for me) and other aspects related to social/religeous conditioning (marraige and ceremonies).
Sounds like you are doing vey good and maybe even experiencing a little happy NRE at the idea of enjoying poly for yourself..very cool!
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