Originally Posted by redpepper
Wow, Tejoko, tough times... just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you and wishing you well.... stay strong. It sounds like you might be on to something.
Agreed. Take care of you. Don't dwell on the insignificant details and wallow in the hate mode for long. If the break is what you need, focus on what REALLY makes you ok and happier (Not happy as this is heartbreaking to read- I can only imagine the feeling of it). Let the "fishtanks" of this relationship go. There is no price for peace of mind, don't substitute his/hers stuff for your sanity in the need for a break. No what I mean? <<hugs>>