Originally Posted by redpepper
I don't have any problem with you asking for what you want, but with the attitude that you will still be his friend even if it isn't meant to be.... then of course you would have to live up to that! Otherwise, leave them alone and wait.
I'm sorry, I believe putting the happiness and honoring what his gf has is more important then her own needs. Think about how the gf might feel if her relationship is cut short because of this. Maybe they won't last forever but why be the catalyst that leads to ending her happiness prematurely? Just my opinion.