Originally Posted by redpepper
He is happy with our progress and is excited about us all being together in the same abode some day, but he is a slower mover than us... so we wait. Moving at the speed of his concerns.
I don't think your husband is moving slower than me, Lilo. I am excited about moving closer to you in the relatively near future but I do have substantial fears with actually living with you both. We both know what these are and the better things are between us, the more I fear doing things to change what I think you like about our current situation. Everything will come in time. I just don't want to do anything that I think leads to "us" changing. Patience Love!