Originally Posted by redpepper
Or the prohibitions "could" be on both?
My arrangement with Mono is that if there is a time that I want a boyfriend that I would have sex with then our sexual relationship woud end and my sexual relationship with him would begin. I could have other boyfriends but not sexual ones. I can have as many girlfriends as I want too and none of this needs discussing with my tribe. Although I would out of respect and curticy.
So, would this be poly fi?
hmmmm...no because you are still open.
My take is that poly fi is now closed. Period....with your availability to girls I suppose you could be gender specific poly fi....
that said, like all things poly, there are variations of a theme like I mentioned above.
tough call might be better to not try and carry that label. Poly fi may be best left to completely closed constellations.