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Old 09-21-2010, 02:35 AM
marksbabygirl marksbabygirl is offline
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Default How do you know?

For the first time in our marriage - there are things he won't tell me, and I'm sad about that.

I had a shower with him - and as I got out I turned and said something.. and he stopped the conversation - because of something he was asked not to share with me. It made me sad that he has to watch what he says with me now

I understand the need, the right of other people to their privacy. I get it.

We've always had a 'don't ask me to keep a secret from my spouse' relationship. And that's changed. And it makes me sad

The balance is hard - how do you balance out one person's right to privacy with an established communication pattern?
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