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Old 09-21-2010, 01:12 AM
Tonberry Tonberry is offline
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It could also be that he's telling the truth, in that he does have a hard time with her being poly... even though he is as well (or is he a swinger?). It happens, too. Maybe you could try and clarify it with him?
I think honesty is pretty important, but I'd always ask the person concerned first, as otherwise it's more like talking behind each other's back.
At any rate, I wouldn't be confortable hiding my feelings, so you should definitely talk about it with either of the two of them, or even both.
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