Originally Posted by Mark1npt
Lemodrop and Redpepper raise great points and make a compelling argument. I'd have to agree with both of them. Destiny, you too.
Indeed they do!
Yes, I was thinking I'd need to chat with the gf long distance, but really, why not wait until she returns. All sorts of things could happen by then. Realistically, this thing with bf #2 isn't working for either of our partners, and harming existing relationships is not acceptable to me.
I think fixing things with bf #1 is proving beneficial to our relationship, as this has brought up issues we hadn't really thought to discuss or address before. Of course, I'm not the one being torn up on the inside.
Learning how to live a successful poly lifestyle is going to take a lot more work.