Jesus, for a poly discussion board there is alot of judgement going on out there.
Jerry Springer for god's sake? I'll go on Jerry Springer when you people go on Pat Robertson...
Thanks for the advice, things seem to be going more smoothly now. We'llsee. it's a day by day process. And no, theres not much of a forbidden fruit aspect to it. I indepentdently loved the both of them, and felt conflicted about it for years. Recently, they suggested it and this all kind of fell into place.