this thread is painful to me because I see myself 2 months ago. But I had 20 years and six kids of history between us to help anchor us. My wife back then used to come out with distressing stuff too. It was like her head was just full of the other guy. I felt like I was on a knife edge . It was me that suggested we share her. I just wanted to save my marriage. We knew nothing about polyandry.
I wish I could say something to help you right now.
The fact that she feels it is OK to withdraw from you sexually is a bad indicator in my book.
Last edited by vodkafan; 09-18-2010 at 10:06 PM.