In my experience it is best to put all activity on hold until the girlfriend comes back.... This is hard to do I realize but time works wonders and helps to sort things out and remain respectful to her and the relationship.
I don't think I am getting any of the rest. lol.... geesh, confusing!
Yes, a step away for awhile sounds like a good plan to me...
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