Is it at all possible that the hurt you are feeling over things ending with Bree might be coloring how you feel about the relationship with your wife?
I read through your other post and saw you thought of doing a start over with Bree to meet her needs, but your last post in it seemed to imply that you were aware that the newness of Bree might be causing you to get ahead of yourself. It seemed like you were going to slow down and see how things progressed.
What caused the change? What happened right before you began to feel this way about your marriage and what caused Bree to end things? I guess I'm just trying to get a sense of the order things played out.
thinking about meeting Bree's needs for monogamy and kids
then thinking maybe you should see how things go