Originally Posted by redpepper
I am holding back on being excited. I'm anticipating excitment but really I'm worried about my connections with everyone. I don't want to spread myself too thin and find I don't use my room. My relationship with PN is an effort at times and I don't want to leave him out, child stuff is hard sometimes and I want to make sure I deal with it, Mono enjoys his time alone and I don't want us to bug him too much... So much to consider!
Even if you aren't using your room all the time just knowing that it's there for an escape when you need it will probably be good for you. You already schedule yourself so well, including your "me time" that it will probably go much more smoothly than you are expecting once you have that space. The only difference is really going to be that no one has to travel to be together or apart anymore.