Well it wasn't really but I definitely would of said that in the past. Its what I used to call "dating" back in the day. Before I understodd the freedom that comes with commiting to others well being and sense of security in what I do. Sense of trust.
Now though, apparently, some people don't think we should take "ownership" of others and we should have complete freedom to do whatever regardless of others feelings about it. If they have feelings then that is their problem to work out. Not ours. They should muddle through and not yet and control or own.
Again, I hope I have that right. Its what I understood of what I heard from some poly people.
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