Thanks so much for everyone's replies. Tonight me and my daughter are going over for dinner with them. The wife is still kind of "iffy" about the whole thing. She was one of the reasons for our divorce in the first place and she thinks this is some kind of revenge or set up. The truth of the matter is, I love my ex with everything I have. He is truly my other half. At the time she came into the picture, we were having problems already and I put a lot of the blame on her. We tried to live together for a while but I wasn't ready to deal with it. Now, over a year and some change later, I've realized that I can do this. I'm excited and a little nervous about tonight. Wish us luck!!!