Originally Posted by redpepper
Ya, if leave the love thing. Just by your being around and constant will show her you are serious. When she sees you aren't going anywhere and trusts you then tell her you love her. Chances are she will already know and it won't scare her.
I agree and have decided to hold off on saying that for some time. Love seems like such a strong word..
Perhaps my idea of polyamory is incorrect, but I feel like love can take any form, any strength, and still be love.
Can someone tell me why friends with benefits wouldn't be considered poly? Can love not be involved with that sort of "casual" relationship as well?