My ex husband is remarried but we are still very much in love. We have talked with his spouse about a poly relationship. She seems open to explore it. We each have a child with this man and don't want to have to split holidays, custody, etc. His wife is a nice woman. We want to make this work and are contemplating me and my child moving in with them. Is there any way that we could lose custody of our children if (and WHEN!!!) our families freak out about this. What kind of boundaries do we set? I'm bi sexual and have no problem "sharing" intimate time. In fact, I would rather all of us have that part of the relationship together. I'm new to this and could really use some advice. Thanks so much!!!