Originally Posted by Amethyst
I don't know where to start. I have been married 23yrs. The last ten without any intimacy. I was introduced to a guy at a meetup we both went to and hit it off right a way. We have been together intimately once so far and feel myself falling in love with him. I'm scared, but I want to make love to him. If I had my way , every day. Help. Am I in the wrong here?
If your husband does not know or if he is not ok with it, whether or not it is wrong, it certainly isn't right. Deal with your husband first; that might mean leaving him but at least you'll be acting with integrity.