My (admittedly limited) experiences in this area have led me to believe that I simply wouldn't enjoy this play with someone I didn't trust completely. It is that exchange of trust which is so thrilling. I simply can't imagine giving that to a stranger, or receiving the same from them.
I'm a pansexual female, married to and living with Indigo
(straight male), in a relationship with and living with Mr. A (straight, mono male).
One day I might stop "practicing" polyamory and just start living it!
Here Be Dragons
Originally Posted by AutumnalTone
Nobody gets a toaster oven for recruiting monos.