Originally Posted by Magdlyn
Esp since we'd been together and mono 20 yrs at that point. No way was I comfy letting her gain wife status so quickly.
That seems fair enough Magdlyn. Our case was kinda different. My wife had fell in love with this guy but did not have a physical affair because she felt so guilty about hurting me. (we also have been together 20 years with no infidelity ) She really was torn apart mentally and emotionally. So giving him husband status in all our minds has legitimized it for us and made it...I think more honourable?
Also he does not come here, she goes to his place to be with him, it is completely separate.
She likes the idea of being a wife with 2 husbands. If there was a way to do it legally she would.