Originally Posted by redpepper
well said Thunderlizard! That is exactly what is thought of when people look for a unicorn it seems... most couples looking for a third of any kind are looking for this. Very short sighted. Who the hell doesn't have baggage! Therefore, why do people think that they will find someone who doesn't! Let alone someone that will be dedicated to just them for the long haul.
Much better to look for people who's bagage doesn't clash with the stuff you own!