What do you call yourselves?
For the first time in 8 weeks, yesterday during an argument I referred to the other guy as my wife's "lover".
She really did not like that at all. She made a point that he is NOT a lover, this is NOT an affair (we always agreed that),
I am her HUSBAND and he is her OTHER HUSBAND.
She really very much identifies with the Polyandry model. We both dislike the terminology of "primary", "secondary", "third" or any suggestion that our marriage is "open".
I just wondered how others on here saw themselves and what they called themselves.