I'm jumping the gun a bit since I'm not yet entirely sure that my boyfriend will be able to come to terms with the relationship... but I'm wondering how do those in a poly relationship handle time constraints?
As a wife and mother of three under 15, free time is minimal. I want to be able to give my all to all my relationships, be it wife, mother or girlfriend. But how do I do it fairly? Obviously the one who will see me less will unfortunately be the boyfriend. Is there a way to handle this gracefully so he doesnt feel slighted?