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Old 09-10-2010, 01:08 AM
Quath Quath is offline
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Congrats on both of you figuring out what you want. I think for the most part, you just have to follow several poly 101 rules. Keep communication open. Be honest with what you want and don't be afraid to talk about it. Understand that other people may not value the same things you value. Feeling jealous is ok, and use it to better understand what you are feeling. Read some books on poly and see what other people on here have dealt with. Let the relationship go where it may and don't force it. And overall, let love and compersion be a guide.
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