Tonberry, I totally get what you're saying about orgasms, I experience the same, but over the years the wiped out feeling has changed. Or at least I fight it more. I like my love to just lay on top of me after and put their whole weight on me. It calms my body down. Also with the water! I'm soooo thirsty!
I have more shallow orgasms too that are more dry, yet wet enough. The whole excessive wetness is s prolonged ejaculation I am lead to believe. When its focussed that is when there is an ejaculation.
My issue, if you can call it one, is swelling. I get hard in the labis area. So much so sometimes its hard to get in. Fingers are fine but a cock sometimes not unless its really hard. Anyone else experience this?
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