I know soooooo many women that are into camping, hiking, skiing, snowboarding, skateboarding, roller derby (
) etc... (I am into doing all of the things I have mentioned.) We are all "doing" stuff as you say. Some of us wear makeup some of us don't, we are bi, straight, gay, pan, try
So many women I have met are into so many things that it shouldn't be that difficult to find women that are interested in the same things as you are; if you want to. Maybe you are just looking in the wrong places... Maybe your men (as someone stated above) are not looking for a woman that is into all the same things as you because they already have you to do that stuff with and they want to do different things with a different person.