Originally Posted by Rarechild
Tp- I don't know why I said somber. Weird word. I was thinking about laughter and spontaneity and how it's harder to break routines that have had time to develop. I was thinking about how easy it is to have fun with someone who isn't aware of all your ups and downs, where there isn't a lot of history, just living in the moment. The connection you have with a new person is all possibility, whereas a connection that has developed through time is full of all kinds of delicate information that is triggered not only in a tough spot, but in the everyday.
Anyway, I hope you and Indigo can get a good laugh at my scattered thinking.
Okay, that makes MUCH more sense! Thank you!
LD - You did make help and hearing that others are similar to Indigo is reassuring. Also, I liked your idea about scheduled cuddle time in another post. Makes sense, even if it feels forced at first.
DFS - I have heard reference to this book. I will have to look it up ... What are the other three languages, if you know off the top of your head?