Originally Posted by freeantigone
You are just like me. I'm really crap at showing how I feel (and saying it too, sometimes
) and I have to remember that my partner gets so much from a hug and a kiss. I'm not really adding any advice, just that I'm the same. I think describing it as thanking him in his own 'language' is a great way to explain it.
No, that's helpful in itself, to not feel like a freak!
Does it become more ... natural? It felt so wrong
this morning. I mean, I knew he would feel the hug in the same way that I felt the thank you, but it felt
like I was being manipulative or something.
Quite frankly, it's a big old trigger for a couple of painful things from my past.
*sigh* More self work ...
I'm a pansexual female, married to and living with Indigo
(straight male), in a relationship with and living with Mr. A (straight, mono male).
One day I might stop "practicing" polyamory and just start living it!
Here Be Dragons
Originally Posted by AutumnalTone
Nobody gets a toaster oven for recruiting monos.