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Old 09-07-2010, 05:08 PM
TruckerPete TruckerPete is offline
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Originally Posted by freeantigone View Post
You are just like me. I'm really crap at showing how I feel (and saying it too, sometimes ) and I have to remember that my partner gets so much from a hug and a kiss. I'm not really adding any advice, just that I'm the same. I think describing it as thanking him in his own 'language' is a great way to explain it.
No, that's helpful in itself, to not feel like a freak!

Does it become more ... natural? It felt so wrong this morning. I mean, I knew he would feel the hug in the same way that I felt the thank you, but it felt like I was being manipulative or something.

Quite frankly, it's a big old trigger for a couple of painful things from my past.

*sigh* More self work ...
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