Originally Posted by Vinccenzo
Sorry I'm being so sensitive. What we are currently dealing with, I took to a regular advise forum and got blasted pretty badly over what I shared. We were seen simply as feckless cheaters lacking in morals with me so naive for thinking any thing but the end of our relationship could come from our behavior.
You're not going to blasted here for being non-monogamous in any form. As we've pointed out, many of us also have open relationships and others also swing. The discussions are primarily about romantic relationships, though we can certainly involve some discussions about friends with benefits and other topics concerning open relationships.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.